Now, can your habits help.

Our habits can influence how your body ages and how we feel. Poor habits can cause us to lose our motivation and our potential; it can also lead to premature ageing, having a lack of energy and can cause illness.

Menopause is a time for self-assessment, to be aware of what we need to change, adapt to help ourselves be healthier and happier.

Heading into our 50s isn’t the end of the world or the end of our lives. We are not too old to change direction or kick start a new journey, it’s a time to focus on our health and wellness and happiness, we still have plenty of years left in the tank. We can still reach for our dream’s whether that be traveling to exotic places, paying of our mortgage early or being our own boss.

It’s up to us to be aware, to educate ourselves, then make the changes needed to be not only healthy but to thrive and live a joyful life.

What habits have you got that could be stopping you from being healthy?

  • Not moving for long periods 
  • Carrying extra weight 
  • No sense of purpose 
  • Eating unhealthy foods and too. much sugar 
  • Excess alcohol 
  • Low vitamin D 
  • Too much sun 
  • Stress 

So, try to create new habits to help you look and feel younger.

  • Drink more water. 
  • Eat more whole foods, increasing your vitamins, minerals and Omega 3s. 
  • Drink less Alcohol or none at all. 
  • Move your body. 
  • Restful sleep 
  • Avoid excess sun exposure. 
  • Don’t smoke. 
  • Go outside. 
  • Laugh more! 

Getting older is part of life but looking tired, being stressed or feeling sluggish doesn’t have to be. 

You want to feel as good as you can. But that is a lot easier said than done.

It starts with a decision to stop feeling so crappy! Only you can do it, but it is good to have support along the way.

How do we start a new habit?

Lasting changes only comes when we decide to have a regular or daily habit, it is said to create a new habit you have to have a tigger to remind you to do it, then a reward for doing it

I use the 3 P’S-Prompt-Practice-Present

So, I set a specific time or place set for my new habit, I normally set a reminder on my phone, and when that alarm goes off, I practice my new routine/habit then once I have completed the task, I give myself a present to celebrate.

So, for example I take my supplements daily, I put my them next to my eggs in the kitchen, so that when I am making my breakfast in the morning, they are a visible prompt for me to take them, and if after I have taken my vitamins regularly for 5 days, I reward myself with a small treat.

Or say I want to stop skipping my eye cream, I place it next to, my toothbrush so that when I go to pick up my brush, I see my eye cream and know I need to pop it on, if after a few days of being consistent I can get a treat.

Stacking habits on top of other excising habits is a great way to add consistency to a new routine until it becomes a habit.

But you have to be patient and kind with yourself because it isn’t easy to create a new habit, you have to have a strong “why”(the real reason you are doing it) so you can keep reminding yourself of it and keep going.

 Are there any new habits you are going to start? I would love to hear what they are, comment below or send me a message on Instagram or Facebook, I would love to chat with you.

Start by asking yourself what you want to achieve and changing one or two habits at a time.  

Use your journal to keep a track of your goals, and desires and to understand how you are feeling. 

Don’t let time pass you by and regret not taking care of yourself or going for your dreams. You deserve them.

As always sending love & support

Helena

Feel the fear and add more lipstick!

Feel the fear and add more lipstick!

I love wearing lipstick.

Did you know that the ancient Sumerians, where possibly the first to invent lipstick, the used to crush gemstones and use then to decorate their faces. Egyptians like Cleopatra crushed bugs (Carine) to create a colour of red on the lips.

In the 16th -century, during the time of Queen Elizabeth, it was fashionable to have white faces and bright red lips make of beeswax and red stains from plants. It was only the upper-class woman and male actors wore make-up in those times.

At the end of the 19th century, Guerlain, a French cosmetic company began to manufacture lipstick.

The first commercial lipstick had been invented by 1884, by perfumers in Paris. It was wrapped in beautiful silk paper. By the early 1900 it was fashionable to wear lipstick as it is today.

Woman like Elizabeth Arden and Estee Lauder started selling lipstick in their salons. In 1912 thousands of supporters in the suffrage movement marched past Elizabeth Arden salon, she supported the cause by handing out red lipsticks to the marching woman, how fabulous was that.

The bold red was a symbol of rebellion and liberation!

Until red lips were popularised in the early 20th century, red lips were a sign being amoral and not something you wanted to be seen wearing but during World War II, wearing red lipstick was classed as an act of defiance against Hitler who was reported to hate hated red lipstick.

There is also something called the “lipstick effect “that hints that when we are faced with economic crisis people are still willing to buy less costly luxury goods like lipstick instead of buying expensive bags etc. Leonard Lauder coined the term, when he announced that despite the economic recession, lipstick sales skyrocketed in 2001.

I think it has a feel-good factor to it to, it makes you feel pretty and more confident which is very powerful tool.

As you get older and peri menopause starts kicking in, a touch of your favourite lipstick can help you get through a tough day, it not going to solve all your problems but when you look in the mirror, you look brighter and that makes you feel more ready to take on the day, we all need a little helping hand now and then.

Coco Chanel said, “If you are sad, add more lipstick and attack.”

Try to find a colour to match your undertone in your skin so you don’t look washed out or too ruddy.

If you have a cooler undertone, try lipsticks with purple, blue and silver bases, they will look amazing. If you have warmer tones, then orange/reds or rusty tones will make you pop.

But to be honest if you like a colour then go for it! it washes off and it is all about you feeling good. I have spent many years helping woman to look and feel their best, it always saddened my heart when I had a client and she really love my bold lips but didn’t feel confident to wear it herself.

I have heard all the excuses, I am too old, I am too pale, I will look like a clown, normally after all the excuses and by the end of the make-up, and we had chatted through her fears, mostly it was just a fear of what others thought!

After listening their concerns and encouraging them to just feel the fear and wear it anyway, they would look in the mirror and smile, and that smile was the best part of my job. To see a spark of confidence blossoming in a woman makes my heart happy.

There is no easy way and there’s no secret sauce to confidence. It all about putting systems in place like journaling, understanding your thoughts but not allowing your thoughts to control you, and to just go for it. If you make a mistake, you learn and grow.

Remember without the so-called failures or mistakes you wouldn’t be the person you are today!!!!!!!

Think about that for a few minutes!

Give a woman the right lipstick and she can conquer the world! rant over….

Always use a lip liner to define your lips as it will give structure to the lips.

I must own over a hundred lipsticks; I love matching the colours to my outfits or my mood. I just adore pink, but I do love a bold red!

My top two brands are mac, Estee Lauder. Top 2 lip liners are Mac, Urban decay, still on the hunt for fantastic lipstick and liners, so I am always open to suggestions!!!

My number one lipstick colour is Mac, Pink Nouveau, I always keep a spare. It is a beautiful cream satin formula, it has a soft cushiony feel and gives good coverage with a long-lasting finish, will suit most skin tones. I pair it with Soar for more of a contrast or rosy rim to blend.

2nd Powerful by Estee Lauder, lovely creamy texture with medium to full coverage. I pair it with Urban decay 24/7 vegan liner in Anarchy, which is a bit brighter than the lipstick, but I love the contrast.

My top red at the moment is Mac Lady Danger-Creamy, full coverage matte finish and Estee Lauders Boldface, it’s a medium to full crème finish.

Remember to exfoliate your lips and keep them hydrated, I always use my serum and eye cream around my lips and massage with my rose quartz roller. Then use lip liner to define my lips, dab the lipstick instead of swiping, blot with a tissue, reapply.

I like to add a little power to my lips to seal the deal.

I would love to hear your thoughts, come and say hi on Instagram or drop me a comment.

Lipstick has its own holiday. National Lipstick Day is the 29th of July.

Have a happy lipstick day!

Glow beauty Glow.

Sending Love & Support

Helena

XxX

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Is your heart bursting with health this valentine’s day?

We know that when menopause hits, a woman’s body gradually produces less estrogen than it used to.

But did you know that it can increase the risk of the coronary arteries narrowing whereas it previously protected the lining of the artery walls reducing the build-up of plaque?

Estrogen can offer some protection against coronary artery disease, therefore reducing the risk of a heart attack.

It also helps to control your cholesterol levels to reduce the build-up of fatty plaque inside your artery wall.

As we get age our blood vessels can become stiffer, caused by high blood pressure. This is a risk factor associated with heart attacks and stroke.

This was me, menopausal, overweight and extremely tired my blood pressure was far too high, and my doctor wanted me to take medication, but I felt I wanted to do it naturally, it was hard, and it was a constant cloud above my head, it was hard to push through that but the realisation that you are heading for a stroke, heart attack or worse gives you the fear! Leading me to change my habits and the right kind of supplements really paid off and I am glad I stuck with it.

I remember the headache, I felt it from the back of my neck to the front, it was a strange pulsing feeling, and sometimes I couldn’t catch my breath, my chest felt tight, and I seemed to get nosebleeds at night.

I still monitor my blood pressure but instead of doing it every couple of days, it’s maybe once a month.

They say that normal blood pressure is 120/80
Raised is above 120-129 and the bottom is below 80
Stage 1 Hypertension 130-139/80-89
Stage 2 Hypertension 140+/90

So, when was the last time you checked yours?

It’s a good idea to do regular checks, it is called the “silent killer because you might not have symptoms until it’s too late or you might just put that headache down to stress!

It’s a good idea to get your cholesterol checked too as your bad cholesterol can rise and your good can decline to cause the formation of plaque in your arteries which can lead to a stroke or a heart attack.

Some other signs that your heart is under pressure are.

• Belly fat
• High blood sugar
• Depression
• Disrupted sleep

After 50 have an annual check up and keep your eye on your-

  • Cholesterol
  • Blood sugar
  • Blood pressure
  • Vitamin D
  • Weight
  • Omega 3:6 balance

Testing gives you peace of mind, that you are heading in the right direction. Also, talk to your doctor about HRT, if you’re like me and can’t take it then opt for a healthy lifestyle, really even if you are taking HRT you should be opting for a healthy lifestyle, we hand probably another 30-plus years left to go and we want it to be amazing, we want to be able to move and enjoy life, the saying goes.

“Move it or lose it”.

I say don’t lose it. Stretch and be active every day, eat well drink plenty of water. Cut down or cut out alcohol. Take the right supplements for your body. It is so hard to get what we need from our food nowadays.

10 foods to love your heart.

• Olive oil
• Berries
• Avocados
• Green leafy vegetables
• Salmon
• Whole grains
• Soy
• Tomatoes
• Walnuts
• Beans

Don’t suffer in silence, your health and wellbeing are important, you want your life to be joyful and packed full of fun and your heart needs to be healthy to do just that!

So, stop and think about your heart this Valentine Day and I don’t about the commercial side of it.

Do i have a date?

Will I get a card or flowers?

Instead focus on your health and do something that is going to make your heart happy, so you have many more valentine days left to celebrate…

As always sending you love and support. Let me know your thought and if this was something you needed to hear today?

Happy Valentines

P.S. If you need a little help to get started or to find out more about testing book a call with me and let’s chat. I don’t have all the answers, but I can listen, support and offer advice on what helped me. If I can do it, believe me so can you.

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It’s called second spring, but we need to be a tornado of support for each other.

I know how you are feeling. You are tired, drained, and generally feeling low. Menopause is a very confusing time and believe me you aren’t going crazy! Every day can be a struggle.

You are not alone.

You ask yourself what is going on with me? And what is Menopause.?

Menopause is a point in time 12 months after your period ends, it lasts for one day then you’re in post menopause but commonly it is referred to as menopause. Now the years leading up to menopause is normally called perimenopause.

The transition is normally between 45 and 55 but it can start from a young age. This stage can last between 7-14 years, but everyone is different. It is a crucial time to look after yourself and change any unhealthy habits.

So, during perimenopause our bodies change, the hormones estrogen and progesterone begin to fluctuate. Every woman experiences this transition differently. Our bodies start to use our energy supply in a different way. We may gain weight and we can experience changes in our heart and bone health.

Always check in with your doctor and get checked out, don’t be scared to as all your question and don’t leave until they are answered. Always do your research, join a support group or talk to a friend.

One of the first signs that you are transitioning is a change in your period. They may not be as regular as the normally are, they may be shorter or last longer or shorter and the flow could be more or less than normal.

Another sign is hot flushes which can last years, Its sudden blast of heat that rages through your body. Your neck and face, chest, and sometimes your upper arms can feel hot, and it looks blotchy, followed by sweating and a cold shiver.

Some other signs

  • Bladdler control
  • Sleep problems
  • Vaginal dryness
  • mood changes
  • Body odour
  • Stiffness
  • Joint pain

So, take care of yourself. We are always so busy trying to be everything to everyone, you don’t set time aside for yourself. Your self-care is so important, you probably thinking oh yes, a Sunday pamper with a warm bubble bath and a nice face mask, and I am good to go, but it is much more than that and it is important that you take care of yourself holistically.

When you are aligned and energised your confidence is boosted allowing you to have faith in yourself. But when you are unbalanced, you feel alone and trapped in self-doubt.

It is time to step into your glow power and to use your passion to make a difference in this world, you don’t have to put too much pressure on yourself, just go at your own pace but keep going. and don’t let that inner voice stop you because it is telling you you’re not good enough, you will never achieve your dreams.

Don’t listen!

You’re not alone and you are good enough!

Now is the time for you to take care of yourself, you have the support you have been looking for. It is time to take that leap into believing and achieving a healthy glow inside and out. I look forward to supporting you on your journey.

Let me know how you are feeling, drop a comment or connect on socials.

Sending you Love & Support

Helena

XxX

P,s I always recommend spending 10minutes in the morning to pray, meditate and journal to give you clarity and hope.

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