Why Not Me? Reprogramming the Beliefs That Hold Us Back

“Too old. Too late. Nobody would want you.”

Have you ever caught yourself whispering those words? I know I have.

Before I started working online, I honestly thought, “Well… maybe this is it for me.” I’d spent years pouring into others, navigating early menopause, and feeling like my sparkle had dimmed. Deep down, I wanted more but I was afraid. Afraid to start over. Afraid I was too old. Afraid nobody would care.

And maybe you’ve felt that too.

But here’s what I’ve learned: sometimes it isn’t life’s circumstances that weigh us down the most. It’s the beliefs we carry about ourselves. The quiet little voices that tell us we’ve missed our chance or that it’s safer to stay stuck than to try again.

The truth? Those beliefs can hurt us far more than the circumstances ever could.

Take Sage Robbins’ message in She Is Unstoppable she reminds us that no matter where we’ve been, there’s always another chapter waiting. Even painful experiences, like a difficult childhood, can shape us into strong, aware, and compassionate women. There’s a lesson tucked inside everything we go through.

And that’s when I ask myself the question that changes everything:

“Why not me? If they can do it, so can I.”

The key is this: you have to feed your brain every single day. Just like your skin thrives when you nourish it consistently, cleansing, treating, protecting, your mind needs daily reprogramming to wash away the old, limiting patterns and replace them with empowering ones.

I even pair the two together. I love listening to my personal development audios while I use my LumiSpa it feels like I’m feeding my skin and my brain at the same time. A little glow for the outside and the inside.

It’s about reminding yourself:

  • You’re never too old to begin again.
  • Starting over is not failure it’s bravery.
  • Your story, with all its twists and scars, makes you beautifully unique.

So today, I want to encourage you to pause and ask yourself: What belief is holding me back right now? And what new belief could I choose instead?

Drop a “WHY NOT ME” in the comments if you’re ready to reprogram your glow inside and out. And if you’re feeling called to start your own “why not me?” journey, message me. I’d love to walk beside you.

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Sending love and Glow Vibes

Hx

#GlowBoss #YourGlowBestie

Here is your daily “WHY NOT ME” journal prompt sheet …

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P.S Optional…. While doing your LumiSpa, read or reflect on one of these prompts each day. Watch your inner and outer glow grow together.

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